One of the first things you need to know about making out is that it all needs to start with a look in the eyes. This will let your significant other know that you care.
What you need to do next is slowly close your eyes and inch closer to your partner. The moment your lips touch your partners you should move your hands up towards the side of their face/neck area. At this point you want to open your mouth but not give any tongue. This is the point when you close your mouth and you want to “catch” their bottom lip in between your top and bottom lip and give a little “sensual” bite.
You now are going to open back up your mouth and give a little tongue. You need to remember that you aren’t suppose to jam your tongue down their mouth. When you are making the move to kiss your partner think about all the movies that you have seen where the romantic man lead makes all the moves on the romantic woman lead. As a man you need to realize that what your are doing could have a lasting affect. Be romantic. You want to make her feel like she is in the movies. As a woman you need to follow the mans lead. Just like dancing. If he is terrible you can try to “class” it up a little bit.
One of the “golden rules” is you need to know where your hands are at all times. This will come with practice when you have done this for a while. As a man I will gently move the hair out of my partners face as I stop kissing her and stare into her eyes. This goes back to my statement earlier. You can have these movie moments. After your look her in the eye go back in for the kiss. This can lead to more sensual kissing or an all out tongue battle. You just need to go with the moments and let them play out. Nothing ever goes the way you expect it to. Just keep your eye on the prize.
Some things to remember when making out are to be conscious of where your partner’s mouth is. You don’t want to lean your heads in the same direction. This could lead up to bumping foreheads or clashing teeth. These things are mood killers. There is such a thing as too much tongue. Nobody want to feel like they can’t breath. Making out doesn’t have to be all about French kissing either. One thing you can do is gently kiss on the neck, ear & forehead regions.
There are a lot of people in this world. Many of them kiss different. Some are fast whilst others are slow. One thing you need to do is adapt. After a while you will have your own style that will mesh with someone else. I would have to say that the most important rule is to know what your want and if anybody ever says “No”, then they mean no. Don’t ever take advantage of anybody doing something they don’t want to do. Enjoy!